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Keto on a first date
A first date is about the other person, not your macros. Choose a place where keto is effortless, order without commentary, and save the diet talk for later, if ever.
The game plan
- If you can suggest the place, choose a steakhouse, sushi bar, tapas bar or wine bar.
- Look at the menu online and pick your order before you arrive.
- Order simply: one swap, said once, with a smile.
- Drink something dry and keep to one or two.
- If dessert comes up, order an espresso or share a cheese plate.
Go for
- Steak, fish or roast chicken
With vegetables instead of the starch. - Sashimi and cucumber rolls
At a sushi date. - Tapas: jamón, cheese, olives, grilled octopus
Small plates are easy to keep low-carb. - Cheese and charcuterie at a wine bar
Skip the bread and jam.
Pass on
- Explaining your whole diet
“I’m skipping the bread” is enough. - Sweet cocktails
Dry wine, brut sparkling or a martini. - Shared desserts
Coffee or a cheese course instead.
What to say
“Could I have the vegetables instead of the potatoes?”
“I’m going to stick with a glass of the Pinot.”
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Quick answers
Should I tell a date I’m on keto?
Only if you want to. You do not owe anyone an explanation for ordering vegetables instead of fries. If it comes up, a short, light answer works best.
General guidance, not medical advice. See our health disclaimer.
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