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Keto at a birthday party

Birthday parties come with two predictable tests: pizza or party food, then cake. Neither has to be a big deal. Eat beforehand if the menu is uncertain, and have a plan for the slice that will be offered to you.

The game plan

If the food is likely to be pizza, eat a keto meal before you go.
At a restaurant birthday, order like any other night out.
When cake comes out, take part in the moment: sing, take photos, toast.
Decide your cake answer in advance (see below).
If you are close to the host, offer to bring a dessert everyone can eat.

Go for

Wings and salads
Common at pizza parties.
Pizza toppings
If you must, eat the cheese and toppings and leave the crust.
Meat, cheese and vegetable platters
Often on the side table.
Berries with whipped cream
If there is a fruit platter.

Pass on

Cake and cupcakes
Or have a single bite if you want it.
Punch and juice
Water or sparkling water.
Candy bags and chips
Walk past the table.

What to say

“It looks amazing. I’m all set, but I’ll take a photo of it.”

“I’ll have a coffee with the cake course.”

“I brought a cheesecake to share, if anyone wants a slice.”

What to drink

Brut nature Champagne
5 oz0–1 g
Yes Dry rosé
5 oz2–4 g
Limit Sparkling water (unsweetened)
12 oz0 g
Yes

Eating out instead?

Keto at a Pizza Place

Bring or make

Recipes for this occasion

Desserts

Quick answers

Is it rude to say no to birthday cake?

Not if you are warm about it. Join in the singing and the toast, compliment the cake and say you are all set. Most people are focused on the guest of honor, not your plate.

General guidance, not medical advice. See our health disclaimer.